Old folks' home
Sunday, September 10, 2006 12:27 AM
work started at 8am for me today.ended at 12pm.just my luck to run into a fucking old bitch.spoilt my mood for work.ccb.don't ever let me find out her hp.i swear i gonna call in and TOS her line.but right now, i cant be bothered abt her.cos i dun wanna die earlier =))after that went to my cousin's house for her baby 1st month.her baby is so cute.she got thick hair.i met another cousin whom i haven met for a very long time.she too, gave birth to a baby girl earlier this month.her baby is mixed indian and chinese.her baby is so pretty.esp her eyes.but she is very shy.cry very easily.hahas.so yep.stayed there for a while and bla bla.went to visit my aunt's mother.her mother is staying at a old folks' home.nobody take care of her and moreover she is physically disabled.so need a lot of attention.while they were talking, i went ard the place.in the mean of walking, i found lots of things.don't think living in old folks' home is good.esp if you are physically disable, that's the end.you wear a diaper from morning 10plus till night time.how great can that be.do you put pieces of watermelon in one corner of your fried rice?watermelon that are in contact with your fried rice =/does it look appetising to you?we saw one younger lady (properly 40+) sitting in a corner.her rice was next to it.but seems like she only have 2 or 3 spoons.we thought she might need help in eating.so mum asked if she need any.the lady spoke very softly.later we found out is bcos she suffered a stroke.thus, her limps(hands and legs) cant move at all.mum asked if she made any friends or have anyone to talk to there.she replied no, cos none of the old people there can hear her.cos of her stroke, she cant speak louder, no voice.even we, have to go nearer so as to hear her.next is a auntie in her 70s or so.i think she is mentally and physical disabled.she refused to eat and stuffs.and you know wad the nurse do to her?she forced her to eat.i mean it is like, if don't want, then give her something soluable like ceral or milk.why force her?!as i walk on, there is a old man on a wheelchair.i thought he might need help/i hesitated a while before i went over to ask him if he need any help.i ended up chit chating with him.he adv me to be careful who i mixed with.some ppl go for money.esp who i love (bf or husband he trying to say).bcos he once got cheated of his money.ask if he feel bored staying there, anyone visit him that kinda thing.
he replied me.
he also told me that the foods there are not very nice (but not to the extend of starving to death), and the rest he cant complain much.looking at those old ppl, i on the verge of crying.imagine how they are being forgotten by the society and worst still FAMILY.how is the feeling being left alone in the old folks' home with such conditions.i realised i have always been living in a world of 'paradise'.having my parents protecting me, keeping me safe and warm.so whoever is reading, pls have a heart. NEVER NEVER ABANDON YOUR PARENTS. without them, you won't be who you are.so yup.next, went for a early dinner at sebanwang (kel's dad coffee shop).was very very shocked to see him there.i though he is busy enjoying his last few days before his enlistment this tues.later i found out from him, is bcos he got no money to go MOS.lol.see.that the consequences of spending money machiam on tap.serve him right.and i am proud to say I NEVER REGRET REJECTING HIM.actually wanted to drop him a testimonial, i came across the photos.looking at his friendster and the things he told me, i just feel so disgusted.fuck off.pls dun say things you dun mean it.though i cant be bother by wad he said.but still, i feel yucks!afterall, today is not really a very very sucky day for me =)*clap clap*hmmm. dad jio us go sentosa just now.while waiting for them to be ready, i fell aslp on the bed.and marcus switched off the light for me.damn.i slept even better.but just for that half an hour.thus, mum and i stayed at home.well.long post today.you haven fall aslp, have you?-have a heart. lend a helping hand to the needy-
