I Got You

cant get it out of my head

Saturday, September 22, 2007 2:17 AM

simplicity is beauty.
life can be as simple as you want it to be.
same goes for r/s.
communication plays a very important part.
if you don't voice out your unhappiness, how will the other party know, right?
but easier said than done.

time have to be right.
you can't possibly all of a sudden "heys my love! you know ah! i very unhappy with you leh!".
you don't do that, don't you?

or for example,
man : im so tired, dear (eyes barely open). talk again tmr.
woman : NONO! CANNOT LAAAAA!! I NEED TO TALK TO YOU!!
man : okok. go ahead and say what you wanna tell me.
woman : you know you do bla bla bla, i beri the not happy leh... (on and on without realising man have already shut down his system). ARE YOU LISTENING ANOT!?
man : yes i am. i will change ok. now, chill and go to bed my dear.

or scenerio 2,

man : im so tired after a day of work.
woman : alright then, we will talk again soon my love. sleep well.
man : ok then. i love you. goodnight.

so you see.
time plays a part in communication.
say the right things at the right time.

well.
all this strikes me all of a sudden.
no idea how it gets in to my trains of thought.
but i was indeed thinking of it.

ignorance is bliss.
but how long can you ignore?
it is not easy for 2 people to come together as 1.
problems arises in the r/s should be hurdled over one by one together, hand in hand.
going on own way might not helps to solve the problem.
if you only think of your own happiness, aren't you being selfish?
if you don't spare a thoughts for your own happiness, aren't you letting yourself down?
contradicting, yes indeed.

everything that is happening is like a coin.
no matter how you flip, there is always 2 sides.
even if you cover the 2 sides, there are still the center.
there are always more than one side of the story.

a friend once told me, "people always say, change for yourself not for others. but i find it selfish to change for myself only."
thinking back, wad he said make sense too.
at least to me.
if you love him/her, change for the sake of him/her, and most importantly yourself.

i always tell myself, live with no regrets.
however, looking back, i regretted some things i did.
regrets is due to my doings.
i've got nobody to blame.
instead of looking back, how and what i can do so as not to live with more regrets?
well, sometimes, people just do things without thinking of the consequences.

pardon me for this so emotional entry.
i just wish to share.
cherish the ones around.
you never know when they will step out, or disappear from your world.

long time didnt leave a msg for my special one.
i gonna do it again today.
to you out there, i simply can't get you out of my mind.
i have been thinking too much.
but all and all, i just wanna love you from scratch once more.

`let me start afresh`